escapades of the elusive kat

I'd also prefer to gift a gift rather than receive one. It gives me anxiety to have to find something for someone I haven't already purchased/planned to purchase a gift for and I def feel the need to reciprocate. I normally try to talk with people about giving them a gift before hand because some people also honestly don't want to deal with the whole gift giving exchange or don't have the funds or a trying to be more minimalistic.