The times are changing
Thursday, 9 May 2024 22:36Hello from the skies again! I am on the plane en route to Osaka as I write this :-)
So my bestie C came over for dinner the other day and finally sorted her October schedule out and we are flying to Austria for 15 or so days in October. I wanted to ask our third travel buddy P but she’s pretty much changed from a “travel for travel” to a “travel for IG influencer-type posts now”, last time in Italy the fun got pretty much sucked out because of her. Besides, she went on a trip to France (or maybe it was just Paris) in March and didn’t even ask us, and she’s been complaining about her lack of Annual Leave days that we just decided to not ask her at all. I even sent her that promotion leaflet on the cheap flights and all she said was “oh your Dad can go back home now,” completely ignoring the cheap flights included to several other European cities.
Besides, she’s been to Austria with me in 2013 already, so she’s probably not as interested as she “needs to visit new places” (yet she’s been to France/Paris before already).
Our itinerary’s pretty nice so far, if I do say so myself. Will get into it another day.
C had a bit of a heart to heart chat with me and said she’s now sort of tired of solo-travel. She used to be a corporate staff but quit her job a couple years back and is now focusing on her business which is a Japanese language school that also has other hustles such as translation and interpretation jobs and such. She’s also helping her sister out with the patisserie. A true entrepreneur, I suppose!
She said that before, when she was a staff and had colleagues, traveling solo was like taking a break from all the gossip. But now, working for herself, she’s already solo every day, and traveling solo just makes it so… lonely’s too strong a word, I guess what she’s trying to say is, it gets monotonous.
Which I sort of get it. I enjoy traveling solo very much, I also enjoy traveling with friends. It’s just having to adapt to the different “rhythm” so to say. But when traveling solo there’s always some sort of inconvenience. Like in the airport just now, I was sitting on a seat near the boarding gate. Just before boarding, I went to the toilet (as my ticket was not able to online check in and I got a drasted window seat so I wanted to empty my bladder before boarding) and when I came out, my seat was gone. I couldn’t leave my bag out (unattended items would be taken away, as the intercom keeps repeating).
Photo taking as well. You’d have to rely on the kindness of strangers to take your photo, if you want a photo. And a funny thing I noticed just as C mentioned… Japanese people tend to take photos that are… not so nice LOL. I noticed too. On IG or TikTok I see shorts people making fun of “ask an Asian to take your photo” but really, Asian, but not Japanese. (Alright, I know i know, no stereotyping. But generally speaking, at least the times I’ve asked people to help take a photo, it’s true. The Japanese have terrible composition)
Oh, and when I got on the plane, I really have to wonder, do people not know how to read? Yes, I didn’t really want the window seat, but I do sit where I’m assigned. So when there was someone seated in my seat (it was a family of three), I simply raised my ticket high up so a crew staff can see me and she came over asking what’s wrong. I simply handed my ticket to her and she asked the guest what seat they’re on. They’re a family of three and just said “the ground staff said we’re seated together” and didn’t show the ticket *rolls eyes*. Well. Just follow as the ticket assigned. I wouldn’t have minded swapping seats but they just didn’t take the ticket out to see what seat they were. So they had to do the convoluted thing of coming all out (it was a 3-corridor-3 set up) and then me going in.
But I made no fuss. I’m now just quietly seated here by the window being roasted alive because the seat in front of me refuses to close the window shutter and the angle of the sun just shines on me.
So my bestie C came over for dinner the other day and finally sorted her October schedule out and we are flying to Austria for 15 or so days in October. I wanted to ask our third travel buddy P but she’s pretty much changed from a “travel for travel” to a “travel for IG influencer-type posts now”, last time in Italy the fun got pretty much sucked out because of her. Besides, she went on a trip to France (or maybe it was just Paris) in March and didn’t even ask us, and she’s been complaining about her lack of Annual Leave days that we just decided to not ask her at all. I even sent her that promotion leaflet on the cheap flights and all she said was “oh your Dad can go back home now,” completely ignoring the cheap flights included to several other European cities.
Besides, she’s been to Austria with me in 2013 already, so she’s probably not as interested as she “needs to visit new places” (yet she’s been to France/Paris before already).
Our itinerary’s pretty nice so far, if I do say so myself. Will get into it another day.
C had a bit of a heart to heart chat with me and said she’s now sort of tired of solo-travel. She used to be a corporate staff but quit her job a couple years back and is now focusing on her business which is a Japanese language school that also has other hustles such as translation and interpretation jobs and such. She’s also helping her sister out with the patisserie. A true entrepreneur, I suppose!
She said that before, when she was a staff and had colleagues, traveling solo was like taking a break from all the gossip. But now, working for herself, she’s already solo every day, and traveling solo just makes it so… lonely’s too strong a word, I guess what she’s trying to say is, it gets monotonous.
Which I sort of get it. I enjoy traveling solo very much, I also enjoy traveling with friends. It’s just having to adapt to the different “rhythm” so to say. But when traveling solo there’s always some sort of inconvenience. Like in the airport just now, I was sitting on a seat near the boarding gate. Just before boarding, I went to the toilet (as my ticket was not able to online check in and I got a drasted window seat so I wanted to empty my bladder before boarding) and when I came out, my seat was gone. I couldn’t leave my bag out (unattended items would be taken away, as the intercom keeps repeating).
Photo taking as well. You’d have to rely on the kindness of strangers to take your photo, if you want a photo. And a funny thing I noticed just as C mentioned… Japanese people tend to take photos that are… not so nice LOL. I noticed too. On IG or TikTok I see shorts people making fun of “ask an Asian to take your photo” but really, Asian, but not Japanese. (Alright, I know i know, no stereotyping. But generally speaking, at least the times I’ve asked people to help take a photo, it’s true. The Japanese have terrible composition)
Oh, and when I got on the plane, I really have to wonder, do people not know how to read? Yes, I didn’t really want the window seat, but I do sit where I’m assigned. So when there was someone seated in my seat (it was a family of three), I simply raised my ticket high up so a crew staff can see me and she came over asking what’s wrong. I simply handed my ticket to her and she asked the guest what seat they’re on. They’re a family of three and just said “the ground staff said we’re seated together” and didn’t show the ticket *rolls eyes*. Well. Just follow as the ticket assigned. I wouldn’t have minded swapping seats but they just didn’t take the ticket out to see what seat they were. So they had to do the convoluted thing of coming all out (it was a 3-corridor-3 set up) and then me going in.
But I made no fuss. I’m now just quietly seated here by the window being roasted alive because the seat in front of me refuses to close the window shutter and the angle of the sun just shines on me.




























